Tuesday, July 31, 2007

traumatic


Ahoy neighbors. Things are hectic but not completely unmanageable (but close). In the last two weeks my unnamed associate and I have made a number of trips to the hospital. Same symptoms: chest pain, heart rate zooming up for extended periods for no reason, severe anxiety, soreness in left arm, dizziness and a feeling of imminent fainting.

Haven’t connected with a cardiologist yet somehow, she has a couple of appointments with possibilities this week. From what I’ve learned, the cause of our suffering sounds like a couple of related problems: Inappropriate sinus tachycardia (no, not nasal sinus) and Mitro Valve Prolapse. To make a long story short, hopefully it’s a case of finding out how to alleviate the harrowing and painful symptoms of a minor heart problem.

In addition, we’re moving to a new apartment next weekend! We’ve hired professionals to move the chunkage, but the whole process is always a pain in the neck for me. This will be the third move for Nicole in about a year. Say a prayer for us and check back for pictures of the new place.

Tuesday, July 24, 2007

"Grindhouse" / Emergency Room





















On Friday evening, July 13, I drove out to Hollywood with a companion of mine (who wishes to remain anonymous for this post) to celebrate the second anniversary of our first date. Somehow we hadn’t been back to eat at Canters on Fairfax since July 13, 2005.

My beef sandwich was ridiculously dry, I’m never going to order it again. I was in a hurry to get to our movie so I stuffed about the last quarter of the sandwich into my mouth. As I sat there, unable to speak or swallow for about seven minutes, I reminded myself of nephew Jarod who, as a toddler, used to insert three quarters of a banana into his mouth and then work on chewing the whole thing up all at once.

The movie we were on our way to see was “Grindhouse”. It was playing at the perfect venue for this film, the New Beverly theater, the last classic revival theater in Los Angeles.

There was a good Friday night turnout at the New Beverly, the movie did not disappoint, and all was well until the last ten minutes of the film.

My companion turned to me and said she needed some water. I was surprised that she couldn’t go to the drinking fountain but needed a cup of water. The snack bar was closed and dark and there weren’t any cups. I came back and told her and asked if we needed to leave. She said that she might be having low blood sugar and asked me to take her pulse. The pulse was zipping along like she was running a sprint, her left arm was hurting, hands tingling and she was feeling like she was going to pass out.

As the theater was emptying out, instead of climbing over the snack bar counter to get at the cups for some water, I went up to the projectionist booth and let him know what was going on. He came down and gave me a cup, sold me some Reeses peanut butter cups. My sick companion had some water and ate a little but did seem to be getting better.

To make a long story shorter, the projectionist called an ambulance. The fire department arrived first, then the paramedics, and my date was taken away from the New Beverly in an ambulance with me following in the car.

We spent the night in the Cedars-Sinai emergency department, eventually getting some tests done, waiting around for results, more tests, more waiting. At one point a West Indian security guard took me aside and impressed upon me the importance of my not taking photos in the emergency room, so I just got the one. (Her pulse rate says 84 in the picture so I caught her at one of her calmest moments, much of the time she was up to 115.)

We left the hospital without any more information than that my companion was feeling better. Unfortunately she had more incidents during the week along with some inconclusive visits to the doctor. Last Friday, July 20, we ended up in the Huntington Memorial emergency room. We spent the weekend there, had lots of tests done, and went through a semi-Code Blue on Saturday, after which they got her an oxygen tube for rough moments.

Huntington Memorial released her yesterday since whatever is going on isn’t life-threatening. We’re waiting to hear about a test that she may have to do again, she’s going to go see her primary care physician, they gave her a prescription for anxiety that hopefully won’t result in side effects of nausea or depression, and she’s supposed to stay away from stimulants like caffeine.

In the middle of last week we read this on the New Beverly theater website:

“Due to the sudden and completely unexpected passing of my dear beloved father Sherman, the New Beverly's programming will be cancelled until further notice.
“Sherman was my father and my best friend, and his passing has left me and my family completely devastated. He was the main force behind the New Beverly from May 5, 1978 until the present. I simply do not known when I will be able to fill his shoes. My pain and sorrow are truly too much to bear right now. He was still so young and full of life, and was doing what he loved so much, riding his bike on the Santa Monica bike path, when he died. My mom and I are in utter shock.
“Thank you to everyone for their support during this difficult time.

“Please check this website for any updates on public memorials and the future of the New Beverly Cinema.
“With love, Michael Torgan”
When it rains, it pours. I think we all need to take the rest of the week off.

If I do get “Grindhouse” on DVD I don’t think I’ll keep it prominently displayed, it’ll be behind the counter, you’ll have to ask for it. Those Rob Zombie, Eli Roth, etc., fake trailers were my favorite part. “Don’t” - ha!


































Wednesday, July 04, 2007

Happy 4th of July!


This Independence Day was pretty quiet. Our Nicolette was hoping for a quiet holiday and by chance that's just the way it turned out. I spent a good hunk of the day finding music on the internet. When I was otherwise occupied Nicole would be on the internet looking for our next living space. I think we had the television and the air conditioning on all day, which was pleasantly indulgent.

Speaking of the television, at one point an L.A. news show was interviewing people about their terrorism concerns for the 4th of July. One lady said, "Well, my life can't stop just because other people are dealing with their issues." Can you be a little more vague?

In the evening we went over to my parents' house for dinner. Earlier, on the phone, my mom had asked, "What should we have for dinner?" Nicole answered, "Something American." Hot dogs it is! I brought one home for the photo shoot. I forgot my sparklers at the Blue House or I would've taken the picture beside Pa's barbecue. Somehow my camera doesn't capture the glory of sparklers, just the smoke. Looks like I'm celebrating with a lit fuse.

After dinner we all watched a DVD Nicole bought from Ebay in 2004 before we had even met and which I'd never heard of. It's a VH1 "Inside Out" documentary about Warren Zevon, his demise from cancer, and his successful efforts to produce one last great album with his starstudded cast of friends. My favorite part was the song "Disorder in the House" and specifically Bruce Springsteen's contribution and guitar solo. And Mom brought us ice cream and some kind of 4th of July doughnuts while we were watching the DVD.

I'm sure I'll have more exciting and festive 4th of Julys in the future, but, for a number of reasons, this was my favorite so far.



2007: John & Nicole One Year Wedding Anniversary


Has it truly been a year since that surreal day in 2006 when I was desperately trying to get a wedding license on the *day* of my wedding, when the only wedding license office that was open was down in San Diego? Yes, and as soon as Nicolette and I got to the front of the line, the office was closed due to a bomb threat. How did we not go insane? And how did we arrive at our own wedding only an hour late?

Our original scheme for our anniversary weekend was to spend it in Las Vegas, at our honeymoon hotel The South Pointe (nee The South Coast). Somehow the room prices went from ridiculously cheap to out-of-reach in only one year. Instead we went to Julian up in the mountains behind San Diego. At the tail end of our honeymoon last year we took a trip to Julian and ate at the Julian Grille. We chose that restaurant specifically because it had the strongest air conditioning. It turned out to be very good so it was our first stop on our anniversary trip.


Our original scheme for our anniversary weekend was to spend it in Las Vegas, at our honeymoon hotel The South Pointe (nee The South Coast). Somehow the room prices went from ridiculously cheap to out-of-reach in only one year. Instead we went to Julian up in the mountains behind San Diego. At the tail end of our honeymoon last year we took a trip to Julian and ate at the Julian Grille. We chose that restaurant specifically because it had the strongest air conditioning. It turned out to be very good so it was our first stop on our anniversary trip.


































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